If you’re curious about becoming a member of Erotic Sanctum, we’re glad you found us. The process is designed to be simple, respectful, and rooted in privacy and community values.

Erotic Sanctum is an invite-only social group that caters to those who enjoy the Hotwife and Stage Vixen dynamics within the swinger lifestyle. Because our events are private and curated, we take care to ensure our members are a good fit for the experience we create.

Step 1: Create a Verified Account on Pineapple

To begin, you’ll need to create a verified account on https://pineapple.life, a trusted platform for lifestyle connections. Once you’re verified, search for the public group Erotic Sanctum and request to join.

You can then either contact one of the admins directly or message the Erotic Sanctum group account. This will let us know that you’re interested and ready to begin the next step.

Step 2: Schedule an Interview

If you’re located in one of our active regions—such as Omaha, Des Moines, Kansas City, or surrounding areas—we’ll schedule a short in-person meeting. This is typically held in a public space like a coffee shop or lounge and lasts between 30 to 45 minutes.

For those outside our current event areas, we’re happy to set up a virtual interview. Either way, this step allows us to get to know you a bit better, answer any questions you may have, and explain what you can expect from our group.

Step 3: Wait for a Follow-Up

Please note that an interview does not guarantee membership. Erotic Sanctum is a selective group, and we maintain a certain standard for the benefit of our members and the quality of our events.

After your interview, you will be contacted with either a decision or a request for more information. We understand discretion is key and handle all communication with the utmost professionalism and confidentiality.