At Erotic Sanctum, we believe in creating a space where open-minded adults can explore safely and respectfully. To protect our members and maintain the integrity of our events, we have established the following community guidelines. All members are expected to conduct themselves accordingly.
Please note: These rules may be updated at any time. Violations may result in removal from an event, suspension of membership, or a permanent ban.
Consent & Communication
Consent is the cornerstone of our community. All interactions must be respectful, clear, and enthusiastic.
- The safeword is RED. Saying “RED” will immediately stop all activity—whether play, conversation, or anything else causing discomfort.
- No means no. Any form of “no” must be respected without hesitation.
- Consent is non-negotiable. Never touch or attempt to engage with anyone without their explicit consent. Always respect personal boundaries.
Substance Use
Our events are sensual—not sloppy. Intoxication threatens safety and mutual respect.
- Alcohol is allowed in moderation. If a host or venue staff member deems you too intoxicated, you will be asked to leave. Repeated offenses may lead to permanent removal from the community.
- Illegal drugs are strictly prohibited. Do not bring, use, or arrive under the influence of any illegal substances. Doing so may result in denied entry—regardless of your membership status.
Privacy & Discretion
We value your privacy, and we expect the same from you.
- Event confidentiality is mandatory. Never share details about attendees, locations, or activities with non-members or on social media.
- No gossip. No outing. Do not discuss who you saw, who you played with, or who attended an Erotic Sanctum event—inside or outside the community. Violation of this principle will result in a permanent ban.
Membership & Attendance
To maintain the safety and comfort of all guests, strict attendance rules are in place.
- You must be 21 or older to attend Erotic Sanctum events. No exceptions.
- No guests allowed. Every attendee must be a registered member who has completed the screening process and RSVP’d to each event.
- No exchange of money for services is allowed at Erotic Sanctum events. If this behavior is observed or reported, we will cooperate fully with authorities.
By Attending, You Agree…
By attending an Erotic Sanctum event, you agree to uphold these values and contribute to a welcoming, respectful, and discreet environment. These guidelines exist to protect our members and ensure that Erotic Sanctum remains a sanctuary for connection, exploration, and community.